My dear one, in my teachings, I did not put forth names of scholars or theological systems for you to follow, but I spoke of love, grace, and the kingdom of God. My desire is not for you to align yourself with a certain school of thought but to seek the heart of God, to follow the greatest commandment – to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and to love your neighbor as yourself.
Calvinism, Arminianism, and all other theological perspectives are human attempts to understand the divine, and while they can offer insights, they are not infallible. Each has its strengths and weaknesses, and can help you grapple with the mysteries of faith.
However, no theology perfectly encapsulates God's nature and will. Therefore, rather than focusing on which system to align with, seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness. Learn from all, but anchor your faith not in a system of belief, but in your relationship with God, in the teaching and spirit I've shown you, and in the love you share with others.
As always, love each other as I have loved you.